~Guys~
Recently someone has been asking me, why didn't i have a girl friend ? who do i like ?
Frankly speaking , i don't really have an idea myself, i always told myself in the past , i want a girl friend because i wanted to be like every guy, i just wanted a girl cause it feels good to have a special accompany.

But now , i m telling you guys that , reasons i didn't have one was that i probably wasn't good enough, probably didn't met the right one, probably wasn't the right time. Even if i would get one , i would probably think trice, because i wanted to include the possibility to get married, not just lasting long .

Can i ask ?
How many of you actually thought of knowing your partner well ?
How many of you actually understand your partner desire ?
How many of you actually knows what your partner thinks ?
Is a relationship just because of accompany ?
Or is a relationship solely based on your understanding ?

I told a lot of you, why your relationship was so unstable was because you don't understand each other well enough. some of you only though of relationship of a mere accompany, some of you though of relationship as a needs and some even thought of relationship as a want.

But, how can a relationship ever go on with such thinking ?!
IF YOU LOVE THE GIRL, YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN PLANNING YOUR FUTURE WISELY
IF YOU LOVE THE GUY, YOU WOULD BE BEHIND HIM FOR EVERYTHING THAT HE DID
BUT SOME OF YOU ARE STILL KEPT UP IN YOUR OWN DREAM

Guys , especially the closest of mine , please plan for your future, i know we all wanted to have fun, chill out, and lead the life like our secondary school days, but that's all over. in a few years time, some of us would become father, some of us would be successful in their career , some would be contented with their normal lifestyle.
We have always wanted to do things on our own, things we do, we know, and we never would expect the needs to explain to other people. but sometimes, people cares that why they ask , that's why they bug you. Learn to appreciate them.


~to my junior~
I am awfully sorry , that i exploited your weaknesses , that both of you were not suitable , i tried , the very least to made you two up together. however , i guess his really wore out and tired , i tried knocking sense into him , but he still doesn't want to care about you anymore. i just hope you can put in more effort into your family and friends , appreciate what other do for you and let people appreciate your presence.